This weekend was my boys' Basketball State Championships.
I could write many l-o-n-g posts about the amazing Cinderella story in which these teams were a part. Finding the words to write is difficult, as there are so much to say.
But my sons...
Not sure who else their parents are, 'cause I know I was not capable of raising such amazing children - seriously.
Ian - was supposed to be the key player. Being the point guard meant he was calling the plays and working the floor. He was ready for some action....At the end of the first game he was severly injured. Surprisingly his leg wasn't broken as the doctors feared. But, he had to SIT through 7 more games. ** I never saw self-pity or anger. He kept a smile and encouraged his team to the end.
Nathan - Remember Ian's story? Well, being a team of 7 guys meant Nathan had to step into Ian's role. He went to Dallas planning on a few minutes play and being Ian's sub. ** He stepped up, took the leadership position with fear but conviction, and frankly, surprised us all.
Aaron - The varsity team won the state championship for our Division...There was a trophy... The coach handed it to Aaron! **My son, on his own and without my knowledge, gave the trophy to one of the seniors who will not be back next year. Aaron felt that without this boys leadership in the beginning of the year the team would not be what it is today.
Those 3 paragraphs were not to brag. Although, my heart is filled pride in my children as never before. Those 3 examples are to encourage parents that, yes:
Sometimes, our children do...
When we feel as if they believe the world revolves around them -
Sometimes, they do encourage others even when the child's joy has been stolen.
When we are knee deep in the challenge of homework, chores & responsibilities -
Sometimes, they do what they needs to be done with excellence and heart.
When we wonder if they get the big picture of what really matters -
Sometimes, they do show us that not only do they get it, but they could teach us a few lessons as well.
Parenting isn't a sprint in which you see the results almost immediately.
Parenting is a marathon. It's about all the training leading up to the moment when the test comes.
We mustn't loose heart. If we are diligent, consisitent, & prayerful, our children WILL evolve into all we believe them to be.
Be encouraged during the 'They Don't Moments' and know that Sometimes, They Do!