My husband surprised me Saturday with a 40th birthday party with my college friends from over 15 years ago!!! Words can not begin to express my thoughts as I came in my front door, and, looked up the top of the foyer to see those who shared the most transforming days of my life ~ Some I haven't seen or talked to in 10 years!
Our husbands let us sit and just talk for 2 days straight ~ Allowing us to catch up on how life had blessed us and dealt us some hard blows. And, throughout the weekend, at various points, someone could be heard saying how nice it was to be around those who were like-minded in our faith, our family, our parenting, and our purpose.
Between the 6 of us girls, we have managed to supply MVNU with a good number of potential students :~) And, it was truly beautiful to watch these kids, many whom had never met, come together and play so well that they were asking if we could do this every weekend! Guess it was just in their genes :~)
Those 2 days were such wonderful reminders that there are others like me ~ women who love the Lord with all their heart and just want to serve Him while raising children to love Him too. He reminded me that I was blessed with such beautiful friends. He reminded me that He loved me enough to bring them into my life not only for those short 4 years, but, for the rest of my life! These women shaped me and impacted my life as much as my parents. These precious souls taught me the good and bad about myself, about true friendships, and, about faith in Him. They truly made me who I am today.
After they left Sunday I had a couple of hours to sort through a box of pictures my dad had just brought me. And, in that box were my college pictures! I couldn't believe it. It was so surreal for me to look at these pictures of the girls who had just left. I truly laughed and cried as I held these snapshots of moments that changed our lives forever.
To be honest, I was a little disappointed in myself that I, the one who preaches "get those memories preserved and moments journaled," was not able to pull those pictures out at the moment we were all together. I didn't even know where to begin to look. How much fun it would have been if we could have looked at those together. So, here is my challenge to each of you......
Get your pictures gathered up tonight and get sorting tomorrow. I'm not saying scrapbook yet ~ that mountain for many of us is too big. I am just suggesting you get them together and get them organized enough that you can at least know what 100 pictures to grab if you are in search of a particular one. Here are a few organizing tips to get you started:
- Bring all your pictures together in one place ~ don't worry yet about which pack or box is which
- Get a photo-safe box ~ these can be purchased for pretty cheap at a craft store
- Many photo boxes come with tabbed inserts, or purchase some
- Create some tabs relative to ways you can organize your life
- I use my schooling (high and junior-high, college, graduate), houses (Glendale, Woodrow, apartment) and moments (wedding, graduation, birth of each child, vacation)
- Grab a pile of pictures and start sorting ~ adding appropriate tabs as you find new divisions
- Don't worry about some cross-over, just try to think how you think...If you know you are looking for a particular picture later, you will find it, if you just think like yourself :~)
- If you want to use post-it notes to jot down notes and stick to the back of the pictures as you sort, you can, but, I don't take the time ~ I figure if I remember it now 15 years later, I'll remember it when I scrapbook it :~)
- Sort while you watch TV, while you are sitting on the deck, waiting for the water to boil, or, set a goal of even just 20 a day ~ just start sorting now, not after you wish you had known where those pictures were!
- Once they are sorted, get them in albums ~ don't fancy-dancy the pages ~ just get those pictures in and those memories and words preserved. You can bet I won't get caught again with my pictures stashed :~)
- If you are looking for wonderful scriptures about friendship, Christmas, or children, we are offering all 10 Pure-D-Scripture Stickers, usually $2.50, on featured sale through June 23, for $1.50.
I also urge you to call your special friend(s) today ~ they are such precious gifts that we don't open fully up when we allow ourselves to get caught up in the day to day. You can bet I was already back on the phone with my roomie last night ~ my husband just shook his head and said "You're talking to her already?" :~)
And, to my precious friends, I love you, and, thanks so much for coming this weekend, and for being a part of my life (again)!










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